Nigerian singer Paul Okoye, professionally known as Rudeboy, recently reflected on his past relationships and how they have influenced his music.

He shared that some of his former partners left him because they had expectations that he could not meet at the time, such as providing luxuries like a car, despite his financial struggles.

Okoye recounted how he once used a helmet to hide his face while riding an Okada (motorcycle taxi) due to embarrassment over not having a car.
“ I have dated some girls and the reason why they kept leaving was because they expected me to do what their father could not do for them. I was popular in high school with no car. Anytime I’m entering the Okada I put on helmet to cover my face, it was so shameful because I couldn’t afford to buy a car.

“There was this girl in the hostel, even when I’m struggling with my Identity and trekking, she expected me to buy her a car. When she discovered I couldn’t afford one she started hanging around guys with cars before she eventually left me.

“If you listened to my songs, they’re all inspired by experiences. To all the girls, thank you for br£aking my heart. You can see my Mansions now. I turned that experience into my investment by converting the lyrics to music.
That same money that made you left me, I’m swimming in it.”

He expressed gratitude for those past experiences, stating that they have been a significant source of inspiration for his songs. Okoye mentioned that the hardships and heartbreaks he endured have contributed to his success and wealth, which he now enjoys. He credited his music as a way to transform those difficult times into personal and financial success.